Bad things do happen to good people

I have not done anything majorly wrong in my life. I have (or at least I try very hard to) not hurt anyone but sometimes I say things that are totally not what I meant to say. Why can't I speak my thoughts? Someone once told me: if you don't have something nice to say don't say it. I really try. I try really hard. But my words seem not to match my thoughts or my intent. I really don't know what I can do anymore. I HATE how the world can easily misunderstand what I say. I really really hate it.

吃得苦中苦,方為人上人

Positive thoughts. Don't lose focus on your goals. You will get through this.

2009 Lesson #2

Don't be afraid to help. Say what you need to say. Do what you feel is the right thing to do right away. Don't wait because then it may feel awkward later on which may deter you from helping. Don't let others suffer as a result of your shyness.

2009 Lesson #1

Don't be afraid to voice your concerns. If something doesn't feel right, chances are, it isn't right. It's better to look like an idiot now than to look like a bigger idiot later :)